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  • Writer's pictureMatt Wish

Five Marketing Mistakes Churches and Nonprofits Make (and how to fix them)

Updated: Sep 17


Church Pastor adding to the noise with poor marketing practices

Marketing in ministry can be tricky.


Often, we think it’s enough to throw out the latest church event or new program and hope it sticks. But the truth is, marketing should support your ministry’s mission, not detract from it. Unfortunately, many well-meaning ministries fall into the trap of marketing tactics that don’t align with their values. Worse yet, they put tactics ahead of strategy. Below are five common mistakes that I’ve seen ministries make and how they can shift to a more mission-driven marketing approach. These mistakes can apply to all facets of your marketing and advertising. Whether it's email marketing, social media, Google PPC (pay-per-click) or facebook advertising.


Mistake 1: Focusing on Self-Promotion Instead of Self-Disclosure


In his book Giving and Getting in the Kingdom: A Field Guide, R. Mark Dillon states that "effective marketing in ministry is about self-disclosure, not self-promotion". This is the heartbeat of a ministry’s mission—letting people see who you really are, not trying to sell them on a polished image. Too often, churches focus on marketing their programs, their leaders, or even their buildings, and they lose sight of the fact that the church is about the people and the gospel.


Solution:

Instead of trying to impress or compete, try being transparent. Share stories of lives transformed. Highlight the brokenness God is working through, not just the successes. Authenticity resonates far more deeply with your audience than a polished but hollow image.


Mistake 2: Over-Emphasizing Events Instead of Relationships


We’ve all seen it: event after event, packed into a tight calendar, each with its own promotional campaign. While events are important, they aren’t the heartbeat of your ministry. Relationships are. When you over-promote events, you risk creating a consumer mindset among your congregation or community, where people come for the event and leave unchanged. Good "kingdom" marketing (and advertising) can be the pathway to real discipleship.


Solution:

Shift your focus toward marketing that encourages long-term relationships—both with your church and, most importantly, with Jesus. Instead of blasting your latest event, share how the event fosters meaningful connections, spiritual growth, or service opportunities. Make the event the doorway, not the destination.


Mistake 3. Using Corporate Buzzwords Instead of Ministry Language


Ministry isn’t business. Sure, your church needs to run with some level of organizational structure, but your communication shouldn’t sound like a pitch from a Fortune 500 company. When ministries use corporate buzzwords like “innovation,” “strategy,” or “growth,” they risk alienating their community. People don’t come to church to be sold a product—they come for hope, healing, and community. Side note, the same could be said for using too much "Christianese," Understanding the WHO and the What For in your ministry marketing is far more important. Communicate with your audience as if you know who they are and what they are really searching for.


Solution:

Focus on language that reflects your ministry’s heart. Words like “serve,” “love,” “community,” and “hope” connect people back to the mission of the church. Let your marketing reflect the language of the gospel, not the language of the boardroom.


Mistake 4: Prioritizing Numbers Over People


Let’s face it—ministries can sometimes become obsessed with numbers. Whether it’s attendance, social media likes, or giving, metrics can start to overshadow the real goal of the ministry: to make disciples. Further yet, making disciples who themselves make disciples. When your marketing is centered around numbers, it can feel transactional to those you’re trying to reach. I've also seen certain vanity metrics used in ministry to give a false sense of effectiveness.


Solution:

The truth is, people can tell when they’re just a number to you. Shift your marketing focus from trying to fill seats to fostering real community. Celebrate stories of spiritual growth and discipleship rather than butts in seats. When you do this, people will come, and your ministry will grow naturally in a way that aligns with your mission.


Mistake 5. Neglecting the Power of Storytelling


If there’s one thing the world needs, it’s hope. And what better way to share hope than through stories? Too many ministries focus on communicating facts and figures, while neglecting the emotional and spiritual power of storytelling. People want to know how your ministry is making a difference, not just what you’re doing.


Solution:

Storytelling invites people into the mission. Share testimonies of lives changed by your ministry. Show how God’s hand has been moving through your work. When you focus on storytelling over data, you allow people to connect emotionally and spiritually with your mission.


At Sonder, we help ministries avoid these common mistakes by focusing on what really matters: connecting people to your mission through authentic marketing strategies. Our approach is rooted in helping you tell your story, build relationships, and stay mission-focused. We walk our church and nonprofit clients through in-depth exercises that create archetype journeys. We can help you prioritize strategy over tactics to achieve the results you are looking for. Ready to make the shift? Let’s chat about how we can support your ministry’s unique calling.


This approach helps maintain alignment with your ministry’s mission while maximizing the impact of your marketing efforts.


 

About the Author:

Matt Wish, founder of Sonder Marketing and Design

Matt Wish is a seasoned digital marketing expert and the founder of Sonder Marketing and Design, where he helps ministries and businesses build authentic connections with their audiences. With over a decade of experience working with global brands and non-profits, Matt combines his passion for storytelling, ministry, and innovative marketing strategies to empower organizations to move beyond self-promotion and make a lasting impact. When he's not crafting campaigns, Matt enjoys spending time with his wife Bethany and their two sons. He enjoys working on creative projects, hiking and leading worship at his Church.


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